Littledickens1
Has the VA had him on medication? If so, it may be his meds are part of the issue? When was he last at the VA for consulation. This issue you are dealing with must be difficult. Are you seeing anyone to help you through this period? Moving on is your call and it must be difficult. I had a separation from my wife for issues of which I won't go into - but it got resolved and now we have 41 years of marriage. Not a happy ending but a period of time heals all wounds.
Stick must be a big help to you and your family. Seek his guidance - I think he knows more about this than he admits. But your problem sound likes it needs medical interjection and the VA should be made aware of this. If they are I'd call them and ask for a sit down and go over all the meds he's taking and his mood swings and his self isolation. We have DOC's on this site who can stir you more with regards to what action you should seek in his behalf.
I don't know why some of us kick in and out and have these moments in our lives but its something you need to work out - even if it takes a short separation. I wish you both well and hope for a happy ending in the near future.
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