Self pity = resentment = bitterness
and when bitterness sets in everything seems bad. Everyone and everything is to be hated.
We all have been given the good "ole shaft" but how we handle it makes us into the person we should or shouldn't be.
The trials and tribulations of life will either make you bitter or better the choice is yours.
Sis, You perspective of life is healthy. Thanks for the reminder. I have dealt with so many older people who were bitter about life. And I have meant many who have gone through hell in their lives and have a sweet gentle spirit. I pray everyday, "Lord never allow me to become bitter and resentful when things don't go my way."
Enough said: I'll be accused of preaching.
Keith