#11
|
||||
|
||||
Larry
Actually was going to group for awhile but stopped.
The leaders also had told me to sign up with the VA and file a claim ... maybe I should start going back again?
__________________
506th Infantry "Stands Alone" It is well that war is so terrible, or we should get too fond of it. General Robert E. Lee |
Sponsored Links |
#12
|
||||
|
||||
Yeah, go back. I don't know what I would do without my groupl
__________________
"Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclination, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." John Adams |
#13
|
|||
|
|||
Re: Larry
Quote:
Your story sounds somewhat like mine: I went to the VA for counseling, PTSD help for 10 years before I filed a claim. They had to talk me into filing one, and i resisted for several years. had some of the same feelings about it you do. Finally I filed the claim, just to see what happened. If youre going to file a claim, help yourself out--take it seriously. I never play ANYTHING for half the marbles. I told myself I'd see how far it could go with two caveats: I wouldn't lie for it and I wouldn't take drugs. (its a sobriety issue.) Other than that I did itt because I wanted to see what happened. (its a curiosity issue) The person I had to do the most convincing was myself--that I needed it and wanted it. I looked at my own life, my own story, read a lot here and then realized: HEY! I got as good a story as anyone here, maybe better. One of the biggest fears of my life was that they'd say it all had never happened and then I'd go postal. And thats what DID happen--the first request (for my CIB which they never gave me(nor any other medals))came back saying there was no evidence in my files to support my claim. And then I really REALLY got pissed.--those sorry cocksuckers can't read their own fucking records. I HAD evidence in my hand that supported my claim, witnesses too (see above, pighumpr). So then I went to my Congressman (G Miller) He Got me my records--which backed up everything I said and more. The person who looked at those records and said there was no claim to a CIB was either lying or hadn't looked at the records. Learn from this: you can lose a battle and still win the war. By the time I was done the same person who told me there was nothing in my record saying I deserved the CIB awarded it to me and told me what a great service I'd done for my country and what an honor it was. Well its not much of an honor if you have to apply for it 3 times where everybody else got it without asking but there it was. Finally! My CIB does not representt an honor to me it represents unfinished business which I forced the military to complete. They would not have "honored" me if I hadn't made them. And so it is with the VA claim: go on down and state your honest business and see what happens. Don't quit fighting before they do. One of the biggest fears of my life was also that I'd tell them my true story and they'd lock me up for being crazy. It was overblown, but real. I don't know how things are now but back in my day I wouldn't have told the command ANYTHING about what I was feeling--it would have been suicide, all they wanted to hear was YES SIR! No great urge by our command then to get the troops mentally healthy, that was a problem they didn't want to hear about. It would have been indeed a career killer to admit everything wasn't just fine. but youre not there now and times have changed. As at least 2 other people here have said, its there for you. Nothing to be ashamed about and they can't "get" you for it any more. People here helped me a lot in my claim (esp you Pack and Fred!--Thanks!) I not only wouldn't have started without them but wouldn't have finished. This is a great resource, anybody not smart enough to use it isn't smart enough to pick up a $100 bill when they see it Good Luck Bill Stay good James
__________________
When you can't think what to do, throw a grenade |
#14
|
||||
|
||||
I actually had to buy a book about the 1st Cav during my time with them to get dates and clarify some facts. One thing James said...always tell the truth as you remember it. Don't downplay it and don't exaggerate. By the same token, don't hold back because you are not absolutely sure. Just say this is the truth as best I can recollect. Another thing, Packo is a trained professional and is very up on PTSD. You can take anything he says as gospel.
__________________
"Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclination, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." John Adams |
|
|
Similar Threads | ||||
Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
News Conference | HARDCORE | General Posts | 0 | 02-21-2006 06:40 AM |
Press Conference Change | HARDCORE | General Posts | 0 | 11-03-2005 02:25 PM |
Bush Press Conference Again Scripted Beforehand | MORTARDUDE | Political Debate | 9 | 04-15-2004 02:34 PM |
16th Annual Ozark UFO Conference and more ... | MORTARDUDE | General Posts | 1 | 04-08-2004 05:40 PM |
East Coast Veterans Conference | deltamedic | General Posts | 0 | 03-12-2003 05:00 AM |
|